Erectile Dysfunction among the youngins is way outpacing the geezers.
I hear a lot that guys aren't interested in relationships or even fucking, just video games and jerking off to OnlyFans or YouPorn. To be fair, a relationship EXACTLY how you want it, no nagging, no schedule getting fucked because you have to go to _________ just because you're in a relationship, living alone, never having to worry about someone else's needs and desires, all the money you save, not being considered a creep because you want to have sex with your spouse, no worrying about aligning love languages, the freedom to do anything, have a dog for companionship, and so on sounds fucking amazing. Seriously, show me the bad part.
To any women bitching about it, I'd simply point out that this is what they wanted. They've spent decades taking control of relationships, making marriage toxic, making the penalties for leaving it far more brutal on a man, portraying men as morons with only sex on their minds who could never exist without a woman, portraying men as a "luxury parent" and not a necessity, re-writing history, bitching about a toxic patriarchy that created everything they enjoy including the freedom to complain about and try to destroy it, mocking women who want to be stay at home moms, mocking women who defer to their husband on decisions, pretending that our gender roles aren't real, and about a billion other toxic behaviors and attitudes that have led to a world where guys aren't only not giving a fuck about marriage/relationships, but are also the minority, meaning the supply is limited.
Women get EVERYTHING. I won't even bother starting the list because it's fucking endless, but tell me where women are actually at a disadvantage to men. It's their world. Yet they still spend all their time bitching about it. They want MORE than everything.
Young single women are so absolutely broken because of the generations before them doing all this damage and passing on unrealistic expectations of what a marriage and relationship should be, and it's all slanted completely to the woman.
Yes, corporate America also gets some of the blame here due to them making two income households more of a necessity than a luxury, but most of the blame still lies very much with feminism.
And yes, men have some responsibility too. If we expect women to live up to the pedestal we put them on, then we need to act like it. Somewhere along the way it became ok to talk down to them, hit them, not give them pleasure in bed (Not picking on you Gordon!
), not hold doors, and yada yada yada. Plus, if they're a homemaker perhaps their solo work day ends when your day does and you both can deal with the kids and dinner at night? (And vice versa on that last one if the man stays home.) Treating your spouse like a slave and then sex doll probably wasn't a wise move for long term happiness.
I know we don't often have female visitors these days (and not because of misogynistic stuff like I typed above
), but I'd love to have this real debate with feminists because I know what their entire argument would boil down to: Family, kids, and love. All things that can exist without marriage. As a man, I can go get every need fulfilled without being married, so why be married?
Disclaimer: I am very pro-female. I think they are so much better than men in so many areas, but that doesn't mean all. I'd go so far as to say they are the superior sex, but I also believe the sexes are equal and utterly useless without the other. I know that sounds contradictory, but it's not if you read closely. This diatribe is just some thoughts I've been mulling over and testing out. I'm pretty tired of people screaming for equality, while never acknowledging their responsibilities, advantages, and when equality has been achieved. Women, particularly white women, are easily the most guilty of this crime.
